Fear. Fear of being judged. Is probably the saddest instinct one could have.

I am not fair.
I am not long legged.
My eyes, nose are not in sexy shape.
Sexy dresses don’t look wow on me.
My accent is not urban.
My English is not good.
My views don’t excite people around me.
I do not look confident in front of my people.
My fav color doesn’t suit me.
I can’t ask my people for feedback.
I hesitate to feedback them.

Ah. This is tiring. So complex. All these stuff mentioned above are wandering around us and they have literally trapped us.

Can we bid goodbye to all of these one by one?